The question that you have to ask yourself now is does your attempts to get back together with your ex is one-sided or from both sides?
If both of you have the desire, the capability of paying the price, readiness to put on some work, dedication and perseverance to go through this, then it well be a fairly good task. But if you are the only one who's trying to get back together then you are going to go through the way with a burden on your shoulders. You are not so sure to get there though.
We sometimes think that it is not our fault. We did not cause the break up and then we should not put any effort on the getting back together. In fact, this is not true. If two people want to get back together they have to put their dedication and perseverance to make it happen. If one partner is the only one interested in making up then it will be very difficult. As it takes two persons to make the relationship successful, it will take also two persons to get back together after a break up.
If you seem to be the only one who is struggling to get back together with your ex then you might be wasting your time and efforts. I am not saying that you should stop trying but take time to see the complete picture. If two of you were working on a relationship and you are facing hard time in making this happen, what about if only you are carrying the burden on your shoulders? If you tried to make the relationship work on your own then you need a lot of determination and efforts to make this work.
The most important thing is to have a support network to help you out in this quest. If you have supportive family and friends that will help you through this you will have better and quicker results. And they will help you all the way in your endeavor to getting back together with your ex.
To sum it up let us say that you need the desire and need to get back together with your ex. That must stem out from real and genuine love. And you must put a good plan to work it out and make that a reality. You need the overwhelming support from your ex or from your loved ones like family and friends and sure you can make it.
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