Getting a an ex girlfriend back can be a tough undertaking... Get it... undertaking... as in the love she had for you is dead and buried. Make sure it is possible before going for it. There are ways to get back together with an ex girlfriend, and I will shed some light on how it can be done.
Just to make sure you are serious, ask yourself a few questions first. Consider things like WHY do you want your ex girlfriend back. What's in it for you? An ever better question that needs a solid answer is... What's in it for her? Is this an ego thing about you being dumped? Does the thought of being alone motivate you? The power of Why is at work here... So ask and answer it, and be totally honest. You may uncover that you really don't "need" her back as bad as you thought. If you do discover that you must have her back, here is some advice...
Now I need your attention.... This is the foundation to you success in getting her back. Confidence, strength, integrity, honesty. I am being upfront, if you are a cry baby, depressed desperate needy piss ant, you have no chance at all. So get yourself together. If you are unable to...oh well, sorry about that. Like I said before... The power of "WHY" If your "WHY" is important enough you will be strong, determined, confident, and dependable. You will honestly look at what went wrong and fix it... permanently! That way you can two can stay together.
It is important to be civil and keep talking. Let her know you realize why she left and that you are making sure you correct it. I know I simplified this, because this is very complex problem. However it can be resolved in a positive way, sometimes the two of you are better off.
Lee Clarke Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. Check out my blog for more tips and advice on surviving a break up and getting your loved one back. http://ThaMagicOfMakingUp.blogspot.com
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