Monday, December 6, 2010

Should I Get Back Together With My Ex - How to Make a Good Decision?


Breaking up can be painful and the first thing you may want to do is to get back together with your ex.

However, before you do anything to win your ex back, it is always a good idea to take a step back and analyze your own situation.

The truth is, not all relationships are worth saving. Therefore, it is important to look at the situation first before you do anything else.

First, you need to look at the reasons for breaking up. Is it due to cheating? If that is the case, how many times have it happen?

If it is the first time, perhaps you can still forgive him/her. Ultimately, we are all human beings and we do make mistakes from time to time.

However, if this is not the first time, then you might want to think twice. If it can happen the second time, it can happen the third time. Unless you know he/she is truly repentant. If not, it is better to let go of this relationship. Don't allow yourself to be hurt again and again. If he/she is already cheating on you before marriage, what do you think will happen after marriage?

If the break up is due to a misunderstanding or one of you blurted it out during a heated argument, then it may be a pity to lose this relationship. This is especially true when the relationship have been cordial all these while.

Of course, you should also ask yourself if you still love your ex. This is an important question to ask yourself. You should want your ex back because you still love him/her, not because of other reasons.

You should not get him/her back because you can't stand being dumped. You should not get him/her back because you think you can't live without him/her. If that is the case, you need to work on yourself instead.

Last but not least, you have to find out if your ex still have any feelings for you. If you absolutely love your ex but he/she doesn't have any more feelings for you, then it is probably better for you to move on as well.








Should I get back together with my ex?

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